Monday, April 10, 2006
it was my first dae at my tutee place in sengkang.. taught him eng todae.. n later his mom came to tok to me.. shes pretty lar i tell u.. then we started toking.. n she told me a bit of her life story on how she was actually adopted n yes agreeing to huda's statement tat adopted children r treated very differently.. but she cudnt care less about her so called siblings lar.. she told me tat she knew she was different bcos she din feel as belonged to.. but she was close to her mom.. she came up wif her dad being very violent.. he wud beat her for every small things tat she made wrong without any patience or warnings given.. she wud b whacked everydae.. she was rebellious by the time she turned 17.. but the fact tat im impressed by her is tat she knows n she tells herself tat she doesnt wan her anak to be the same wae.. she doesnt wan her anak to grow up not enabling to tell her stuffs.. to lead a life differently wen hes at hm n wen hes out.. she doesnt wan her past life to be his life.. she warns her dad not to do the same to her son..cos she saw tat her son was beginning to simpan grudge n aspire to bear a grudge lyk his grandpa.. n she wans to make sure it doesnt turn out tat wae.. n shes one strong woman who doesnt concede to man's demands n stuff.. her ex husband was a womaniser n she told him tat he can get lost n not get married again.. i was impress at the strength tat she had.. i mean not many women who grows up astray is able to come back to the rite path.. i mean she still haf a few habits lyk smoking.. but she noes tat at least theres points tat backs her up as a gd person..
this mite b a typical storyline tat pple noe but for me i guess its kinda the first time tat i come to noe of a real person who has gone thru it.. her son is her world n even though hes naughty, she loves him more than anione else n wud protect him.. n he does the same for her too.. anw, she werks in IMH.. interesting huh! she told me a lot of her experiences there which are funni n sad! haha.. gt yg nak marry her lar.. then sad ones yg those young kids whose parents send them there cos they turn crazy wif all the pressure given by parents.. so sad lar.. life huh? theres a side to everything.. brsyukur wif wad u haf.. even if ur life is bad now, sumone's else can b worse.. im glad i still haf my famili n frens =)
toodles!
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